Eager China parents use apps to find partners for adult children, turn pairing into transactions

Anxious Chinese parents are increasingly turning to “find a daughter-in-law” or “find a son-in-law” platforms online, turning partner seeking into direct negotiations between parents.During the Chinese New Year, as young people fend off probing questions about marriage and relationships from relatives at the dinner table, sharp-eyed businesses have already shifted their strategies.Instead of trying to persuade single young adults who resist matchmaking, they are now directly targeting a different demographic: anxious parents with strong purchasing power.People read résumés at a traditional matchmaking corner in China. Photo: ShutterstockAn increasing number of online platforms branded as ‘matching future in-laws’ have emerged.Traditionally, China’s matchmaking corners are weekend in-person outdoor marriage markets, where parents display handwritten résumés of their unmarried children in the hope of finding suitable partners.Now, online platforms allow parents to ‘select a son- or daughter-in-law’ from the comfort of their homes while quietly monetising parental anxiety.On these platforms, the first step for new users is to define their goal: “looking for a daughter-in-law” or “looking for a son-in-law”.